Shifting sands of time

Johnny zhng your car.

It’s even better than Russell Peters.
(:
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Something which caught my eye in a mag:
(For all you attached people)

MANAGE YOUR DIFFERENCES
Different as day and night? Keep your marriage going with these tips:

1. Have faith:

-Think positive and believe in your marriage.

1. Agree to disagree:

-The ways in which a couple deals with their conflicts allow them to move forward. Instead of fighting for individual wants, focus on how you can work together to satisfy each others’ needs.
(A compromise actually allows you to understand each other better. =D)

1. Accept him:

-Remember, it’s easier to change ourselves rather than others. With that in mind, changing the perception of those differences would be easier; accept your spouse for who he is, and celebrate these different traits you were attracted to in the first place. (When you do accept him, it means you love him despite his flaws and weaknesses! =D)

1. Communicate:

-To have a happy, regular marriage, there must be extensive coordination and regular interaction: develop good listening skills and learn to express your needs.
(Basically, the men don’t get it. Just tell them what you want! =D)

1. Stay resilient:

-Instead of giving your marriage a use-by date, focus on acceptance and tolerance.
Despite the differences and disagreements, when you’re willing to soldier on, what matters most is the determination to maintain the marriage.


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I’m not married or attached, but I feel kind of committed towards someone.
And yes, I said I’d never leave.
But I won’t haunt or cling either.
I’ll know when to go:
When the day comes where you stop loving me, or I stop loving you.

























































Somehow, I’m crossing my fingers that the day never comes, though.